Hi, I am Bonita Choi O’Neill
I am a Feminine Embodiment and Nervous System Practitioner and a fourth-generation Reiki Master Teacher. I work with high-achieving, spiritually aware women who have built real success — and are no longer willing to run their lives on stress. I guide them in rewiring survival-driven patterns into grounded, steady power, so their money, relationships, vitality, and leadership no longer cost their body.
Through somatic work, subconscious pattern rewiring, and nervous system regulation, I help dissolve the emotional and physiological patterns that keep women waking up tense, bloated by midday, tightening before conflict, and ending the day exhausted from carrying it all.
Inside Divine Feminine, I help you rewire your nervous system and identity so your success feels steady, your decisions feel clear, and your body feels safe at the level you are stepping into.
How To Work With Me
Divine Feminine is delivered live online and is where the depth of this work happens for women internationally.
In-person private sessions are available exclusively to women inside the Divine Feminine container and take place at Stories Emmaplein 7A, Oud-Zuid, Amsterdam, next to Vondelpark, in a private room designed for depth and discretion.
Group Reiki courses and seasonal Reiki ceremonies are held in person in Amsterdam, with select gatherings hosted at partner venues including our monthly group energetic soundbaths at the beautiful hotel, Rosewood Hotel on Prinsengracht.
WAYS TO WORK WITH ME
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DIVINE FEMININE
A 3–6 month identity and nervous system reset for high-achieving, spiritually aware women in transition.
You are already successful, but your body is carrying the pressure. By midday your stomach distends from stress, your chest tightens before hard conversations, and you end the day exhausted from holding everything together.
Inside Divine Feminine, we recalibrate your nervous system, somatic patterns, and hormonal rhythm so you can lead, earn, and love without feeling encased in iron-clad armor.
For the woman ready to expand her income, speak with clean authority, and move through her day without stress living in her body.
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LEARN REIKI
I am a 4th-generation Reiki Master Teacher, trained under four master teachers in both Japanese and Western lineages. I teach Reiki Level I, II, and III through a pure and lineage-rooted approach.
In a world where Reiki has become noisy and commercialised, I guide you back to its origin — to the quiet, potent current of Reiki as a way of being.
Our Reiki courses goes beyond energy healing. It’s a return to flow, to spaciousness, to your inner knowing — and a gift you carry for life. Many of my Reiki students later join the Divine Feminine work to explore embodiment, energetics, and visibility even more deeply.
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SOUND HEALING
Sound is one of the most ancient and powerful vibrational medicines — e.g. listening to 432 HTZ helps us ground and connect to peace. I bring my full energetic transmission into every session.
My soundbaths are a journey into nervous system recalibration, energetic expansion, and cellular memory clearing.
I work with alchemy crystal bowls, metal gongs, and chimes, infusing them with healing frequencies and energetic vortex work — all guided by group field attunement and intuitive facilitation.
You’ll leave not just relaxed, but realigned — with clarity, insight, and resonance that lingers for weeks.
DIVINE FEMININE & REIKI COURSE
Rediscover your life passion, joy, and purpose; and transform yourself - to live the fullest expression of your life, once and for all.
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FAQ’S
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Like you would prepare for a massage, I always advise drinking plenty of water before or after an energy healing session. Energy healing works on deep layers, so water and rest help to continue to detoxify and integrate the changes into your systems.
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During the treatment, you may feel better immediately, feeling a sense of peace, relief from pain, and greater mental clarity.
I draw parallels between receiving an energy healing like a deep massage or a yoga class. Energy healing works on a deep level, and because shifts happen, you will often experience a release.
Because the healing works as an energetic release, you may also feel more tired, emotional or physical discomfort. Like cleaning a dirty attic - your body is clearing out the "dust and dirt" in your system. The discomfort surfaces to be then released. This process is safe, and clients who experience this report feeling lighter afterwards.
Trust the process, and allow whatever that comes up to be felt, purged, and let go; and know that this is ultimately beneficial.
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Clients can work after the healing session, though I suggest giving yourself at least 15 minutes to gently “land” back to daily routine. Because shifts occur, take the time to check in with yourself, just like you would after a massage or an acupuncture treatment. Use this space to reflect, meditate, or take a slow walk. You booked yourself an energy healing session, so prioritise and give yourself the time to digest and process the healing. And when you return to work, enjoy the renewed sense of self and perhaps, with even, with greater clarity.
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Yes! Read all about energy healing for children and young adults at the bottom of my page here.
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Distance healing is a natural part of energy medicine such as Reiki, Psychic Healing, and Vortex Healing. The distance between me and you (the client) makes no difference. Like our in-person sessions, I tap and connect into your energetic systems, and work on what needs to be cleared and released.
How does distance healing work?
Einstein, among others, had theorised this “spooky action at a distance” as Quantum Entanglement. David Bohm furthered this notion with quantum interconnectedness in that subatomic particles and energy waves “communicate” and are ultimately part of an integrated whole.
In simplified terms, distance healing works because we are all connected through a common energetic field - qi, also known as ki, prana, universal energy, or bioenergy.
Many of my overseas clients experience regular, often monthly, distance healing sessions, where we work together to release the blockages in your systems. Their reported effects are the same as in-person sessions.
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I usually recommend once every month (2-6 weeks) for energy healing. Here are some reasons below:
We pick up on other people’s energies and emotions constantly and over time this accumulates
Emotional stress and trauma takes time and consumes energy to process and heal
Clients want to work on deeper levels of clearing unconscious conditioning
Energy healing supports the treatment of Physical Ailments such as cancer, eye issues, old and fresh injuries, arthritis, and so forth
After working through the initial sessions of coping with for example, severe stress, clients begin to “wake up” to a deeper calling of their life due to the energy work, and continue to take this path to deepen their life purpose
My regular clients usually come once a month for healing. Just like in a marathon, think of our sessions as a water point stop, where I pass you your much needed water and supplies before you continue on.
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